This neglected place of mine, the blog. The blog has been thought about on numerous occasions, sometimes a few times throughout the day. I always have great ambitions, goals & plans for this space of mine. For one reason or another, they never seem to get from this constant idea flowing brain of mine to this little login page on world press. Well, low and behold, the neurons were firing tonight, and instead of thinking out loud, I logged in. Shocked that I even could recall the password to get to this point. To sit here and say how busy and crazy life has been would be absurd, to say that the shop has been busier than ever would be factual, and to say that my “Nurse” career, “girlfriend” to the corporate business owner, aka “Office Manager Girl” have been slow, would be a fib. It’s so surreal how life catches up with you in the most mysterious ways. I always tell myself, “If I had 100 hours in one day I could get so much accomplished.” Factual? , or reality? , I would probably just take a nap & tell myself, “I’ll get to the to-do list later.” It’s hard to believe that March is just 6 days away, you know what that means? I’ll be a year older, HELLO 34! How the heck did you get here so damn fast. It feels like yesterday that I was turning the big 3-0! There have been some not.so.fun things going on in life, but there have also been some amazing things blessing us in so many ways. I hope that these neurons will continue to fire and that I will come back to this space of mine. It feels amazing to put these memories, thoughts and ambitions to good use, & let my fingers do the sharing. I may be lost, but I will not be forgotten.
Okay. Guilty. I haven’t been blogging. Grrr… I’m here today to share a few pics of our home. It’s been all dressed up for the Holidays since November, I won’t spill the beans of exactly when in November I started, but the holidays fly by, I can’t believe Christmas is in 12 days. Lord help us all. I kept things very traditional this year, Red, White, Burlap & Natural Hues along with hints of Gold. I put up my wreaths, but somehow forgot to snap pics, whoops. My dinning room table is still not finished because Mr. D has his paperwork spread out, go figure. It’s warm and homey and thats what I love best about the holidays.
I contemplated doing my thankful thursday posts this November. I always feel redundant when I go on and on about what I’m thankful for… BUT then I reminded myself how self-fulfilling they are and how it is a positive reminder of everything I have and everything I’m more than thankful for.
Today I am thankful for a heart that keeps beating, allows me to feel pain, sorrow, love, and emotions beyond measure. Without this beating heart of mine, I’d be null, void and obsolete. So with that being said, I’m pretty dang thankful. It beats every second of every day to keep me alive. That in itself is pretty amazing. It allows me to be me. Me, an emotional person who loves deeply, endlessly and continuously. A person who hurts deep down inside day in and day out because I cannot change things that need to be changed, and fix things that need mending. My heart if filled to the brim of gratitude, filled with hope, love, faith and creativity. I love that I’m becoming comfortable in my own skin, branching out and allowing that heart of mine to act on what it feels, act on what it believes, and create whatever it desires. Today I’m thankful for this magically abundant heart of mine.
I’m not really sure how to start this post, how to separate all the amazing memories and pictures, but I’ll just run with it. My best friend Corrin is expecting twins. A boy and a girl. Colton & Aubree to be precise. I love this girl and her family more than words can express. She is like my sister from another mister. We just get each other. When I found out she was expecting I was over the moon excited. She has a little guy, Westin who is almost 4, but she knew she wanted ONE more. Well she got blessed with TWO. She was anxious, nervous and scared. I don’t blame her. The thought of having twins has got to be more than overwhelming. I jumped on the opportunity to host and throw a shower for her. I just had to. I had a vision and it came to life. It’s tough when you’re not a “theme,” person, when you want to have accents of colors and vintage and this and that. Well… Here it is a vintage newsprint shower with touches of teal and coral to represent her miracle babies, a boy and a girl, Colton & Aubree. I wanted to post all the details of the specifics, but I’ll do that in another post or update this, for now I want to share pictures and reminisce on these babes and my beautiful friend.
Perhaps it is because I work in the health field, more specifically mental health. I often hear the diagnosis “Bipolar,” being thrown around, spit out of peoples mouths and on the tips of tongues of so many people. It’s inevitable I guess, people assume if one has “mood swings,” or “highs & lows,” they should be deemed and labeled: BIPOLAR. The fact that life is like a roller coaster ride for almost anyone and everyone, means that everyone suffers from mental illness and we are are Bipolar, right?
I had pinned this quote (above) on pinterest awhile back & came across it while visiting my pin boards last night. I re-read it and thought how it suites me so well, describes my life & my emotions. Sometimes I wonder who I’d be without my sensitive side. I think as I age I tend to find myself reacting more to things that rub my heart the wrong way, words that make my mind cringe, or circumstances that arise that are completely out of my control. My days are usually filled with highs and lows, I think that is what one would expect from life, right? That doesn’t make me bipolar or mean that I’m moody, that just means I’m human & living life.
Life is what you make it. This quote makes me smile, giggle and feel embarrassed for those who choose to label people. Life is too short to worry and depict why people are sensitive, why people have emotions that they allow to be heard & seen by others, why people judge people based on their personal roller coaster ride. Be your own voice, be heard, and don’t allow yourself to pick up any pieces to YOUR puzzle, because that puzzle is your own, and you are not broken.
Since it’s been forever and a day or month since I’ve blogged about the shop, I thought Id share some new fun items that I’ve been creating. The shop has been growing right before my very eyes and I’m so thankful. I love creating new things and keeping up with the demands, trends and likes of all the littles and their Mamas out there.
Fall products are in full swing and have been so fun to create. I’m now making fun infinity children’s scarfs, fun head wraps, new teething rings and so much more! Go check out the shop, you’re bound to find something you LOVE.
Oh Ya’ll we hosted the most amazing party at our house a few weekends ago, it was so much fun & the birthday girl loved it. Mr. D’s Mom turned the big 6-0! We wanted to do something special for her, so we opted to throw a surprise party & create a western hoedown in the backyard. His Mom loves country, as do we, so we thought it would be the perfect combo. I began working on the details & all the decor months ahead of time, to ensure my OCD didn’t interfere and I could make it a magical day & awesome party. I’d like to believe not a detail was missed.
I had the amazingly talented Allison from Madison Design Studio create the invitation for me. I wanted a rustic, classy swing to a fun pink/brown Western theme, and she nailed it. We had the party catered by Naples Rib Co. & I made a few things myself. My friend Monick lent me her vintage bath tub which was filled with lots of ice (because it was of course like 90 degrees that day) and drinks.
I wanted to add a pop of gold, because I just love gold these days. I bought plain paper mache numbers from Hobby Lobby, sprayed them gold and topped them off with a fine gold glitter. The flowers I bought the day before from Costco and created my own arrangements in mason jars & old cowboy boots. I was able to find some fun rustic horse shoes, keys, and spurs from Hobby Lobby in the Western Section, on SALE of course! I have a forever growing collection of mason jars, but bought the gold lids on etsy. I added some fun paper straws and made my own flags, “60,” on one side and on the other, “celebrate kathi.”
Bandanas were a must, such a fun and inexpensive added decor. I used my amazing cricut machine to cut out “60′s” and “Happy Birthday Kathi,” in a gold glitter card stock paper. I made my own tissue pom poms and somehow managed to bunch them all up in a cluster on our patio cover.
I also used the bandanas to create a little utensil holder. I found a random video on you tube on how to fold them, I typed and printed out a fun little menu and added some jute twine to tie the napkins together. For the favors I wanted to keep it simple, yet stick with the western theme. I found small 5 x 7 paper bags, typed up a fun label, “Happy Trails,” because, of course there was a fun bag of trail mix inside! Yum! The mini plates, and striped napkins were for the cake table. The cake didn’t make it outside until the late evening, it would have melted away.
Oh, you better believe we had these massive hay bales we thought it would be fabulous and fun, BUT it was a big ole’ mess. These beasts were 4 feet by 2 feet and weighed about 50 lbs. each. We opted to have them delivered, I ordered 20! Whoops. We used them for seating, which I had purchased gingham fabric to add to the tops so tooshies weren’t poked too bad. With the rest we made a fun couch for people to take pictures on and just hang out. I wish I would have taken more pictures of the final hay bale set up, but these pictures will do. I love the cowboy boot filled with flowers, my absolute favorite decor from the day. I used burlap on a roll for the table runners, worked great and was so easy.
Lastly, we had a fun photo station. I thought it was a fun, personal touch. I bought this Instax camera, which is a polaroid. I asked the guests to take fun pictures and while they developed, to fill out these cards I created. They wrote letters to the Birthday girl, then peeled the tape and posted the pictures on top of the card. She absolutely LOVED it! And… the cake! Amazing! I had it made at Great Dane Bakery in Los Alamitos, it was delicious and matched the party perfectly! I found the candles at Target, and spray painted them to match the gold and added some glitter.
It was a memorable day for the Birthday Girl, and the best part was she was SHOCKED, SURPRISED & spend the evening with her closest friends and family.
It’s hard to believe its been 6 whole months since I came to this blog of mine. I’ll admit, it’s crossed my mind more than once to pick up where I left off and pretend that I hadn’t vanished from blog land. The truth is I blamed my reckless water spill & the ruined MACbook for not having access to my blog, but now that I splurged & treated myself to a new computer, my blog should be back in action. Or, maybe it’s because I’m working less & finding more time to just do god knows what. It’s crazy how when you have more time on your hands you seem to get less done. I mean, I’m only working 1, maybe 2 shifts a week at the hospital, still running the shop & trying to grow my brand as well as managing the office for Mr. D.
I’ve noticed a trend, work less, play more, work less, spend more, work less, veg more, etc… Well FALL is finally here, well not so much in Southern California, but according to the calendar, FALL is in full season. I’ll admit, I was beyond reluctant to add some FALL decor to my favorite little nook in the house, it just didn’t seem legit when the sun is shinning, the temperature is in the 80-90′s & the a/c is cranking in the house. I love FALL, warm cozy nights, fun sweaters, pumpkin spice lattes, the leaves changing colors & the crisp air… So Dear FALL, go ahead and show up, sooner than later.
I have some fun parties that I threw over the past few weeks to post, excited to share those. I hope everyone is doing well and can’t wait to blog more and get back into the swing of things!
This past Saturday I had the opportunity to attend a small craft party with my friend Monick at Oh Hello Friend in Fullerton. Our very talented and amazing friend Andrea was hosting this event, and featuring the new Cricut machine.
There was about 20 of us ladies that mingled, painted, played with the new machine, ate amazing yummies prepared by Andrea & sipped on fun drinks & wine. I rarely get a girls night out, so when I found out about the event, I knew I had to be there.
Okay, ready for the best part of the night? One of the guests at the party would be WINNING a FREE Cricut machine. We all put our names in a basket, and Andrea picked. Andrea, “Crystal Lee!.” Shut the front door! I won, I freaking won the CRICUT! I’m still in shock, I’m so excited to put it to use and still can’t believe I WON something so amazing.
A few weeks ago we headed out to Redlands for a weekend wedding. Mr. D was in the wedding, so the festivities were all weekend long, but the wedding happened to be Sunday afternoon. They had a beautiful ceremony at Serendipity Gardens and the reception followed shortly after. I’m not going to lie, it was in tim-buck-too and I had my doubts on the location. Hello, it was AMAZING. So much my style, very rustic, beautiful, peaceful and perfect.
Every little detail was so special. The venue is pretty new, but the best part is they do everything for you. The view was amazing, the white carriage that brought Karin down the long hill hidden from her guests and husband to be, was the perfect touch of romance.
All the drinks were served in Mason Jars, the outdoor fire pit had a amore bar, the outside fireplace had a couch for seating, and the long sparklers as they ventured off to married life as husband and wife.